Worth A Glance
Giving Comes Full Circle
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I have a good friend, Tom, who keeps extra umbrellas in his car. On rainy days he drives by bus stops and hands free umbrellas to anyone who needs one. Yesterday, a young man knocked on my door. He was canvasing the neighborhood setting up appointments for free window replacement estimates. He stood far from my door and spoke carefully. I knew why. Despite much progress, stereotypes are still very real. I knew this young African-American man was not getting a whole lot of doors opened in my neighborhood. I opened my door wide and we chatted for a few minutes. He visibly relaxed. Before he turned around to leave, I noticed it was about to rain. I asked him if he would be okay in the rain.He told me that he needed to finish out the block before he could return to his car which was parked several blocks away. I thought of my friend Tom. I asked the young man to wait. I went to my hall closet, got an umbrella, and handed it to him. His eyes went wide. For a few seconds he didn't say anything, then he asked 'Are you sure?"."Absolutely", I said.He was so grateful for the umbrella and I was so grateful for the opportunity to give. (I wish I had remembered a smile card!)Later that evening I was spending time Tom. A Cyndi Lauper song was playing and I shared with him that I was praying for a miracle to by able to buy tickets to her concert. (I know she is from the 80s, but I love her!). Things have been a little (okay, a lot) tight financially and I couldn't justify the expense. I looked over at Tom and he had the strangest look on his face. Finally he said, "I was going to make it a surprise, but I can't keep it a secret any longer. I ordered two tickets for you and Alex to go to the concert. I did this because I know it will make you so happy and also because I know you will pay it forward."By the time I told him the umbrella story we were both almost in tears. If we hadn't been out in public, we would have been bawling. Next week, Tom and I will begin volunteering at center for single parents and the circle of giving will continue.
Hey ALL found this article online thought it should be shared.
I have a good friend, Tom, who keeps extra umbrellas in his car. On rainy days he drives by bus stops and hands free umbrellas to anyone who needs one. Yesterday, a young man knocked on my door. He was canvasing the neighborhood setting up appointments for free window replacement estimates. He stood far from my door and spoke carefully. I knew why. Despite much progress, stereotypes are still very real. I knew this young African-American man was not getting a whole lot of doors opened in my neighborhood. I opened my door wide and we chatted for a few minutes. He visibly relaxed. Before he turned around to leave, I noticed it was about to rain. I asked him if he would be okay in the rain.He told me that he needed to finish out the block before he could return to his car which was parked several blocks away. I thought of my friend Tom. I asked the young man to wait. I went to my hall closet, got an umbrella, and handed it to him. His eyes went wide. For a few seconds he didn't say anything, then he asked 'Are you sure?"."Absolutely", I said.He was so grateful for the umbrella and I was so grateful for the opportunity to give. (I wish I had remembered a smile card!)Later that evening I was spending time Tom. A Cyndi Lauper song was playing and I shared with him that I was praying for a miracle to by able to buy tickets to her concert. (I know she is from the 80s, but I love her!). Things have been a little (okay, a lot) tight financially and I couldn't justify the expense. I looked over at Tom and he had the strangest look on his face. Finally he said, "I was going to make it a surprise, but I can't keep it a secret any longer. I ordered two tickets for you and Alex to go to the concert. I did this because I know it will make you so happy and also because I know you will pay it forward."By the time I told him the umbrella story we were both almost in tears. If we hadn't been out in public, we would have been bawling. Next week, Tom and I will begin volunteering at center for single parents and the circle of giving will continue.
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